Spring Clean Your Mind: Letting Go of Mental Clutter During Stress Awareness Month

Self-care has become a buzzword in recent years, often associated with bubble baths, journaling, or taking mental health days. While these practices have value, they tend to focus on top-down approaches, strategies that rely heavily on cognitive control, like reframing thoughts, mindfulness, or planning self-care routines. But what if you're too overwhelmed to think your way out of distress? This is where bottom-up approaches to self-care come in. These techniques engage the body and nervous system first , creating safety and emotional regulation from the ground up. For individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, or trauma, bottom-up strategies can help when traditional cognitive approaches feel out of reach. In this blog, I’ll explore what bottom-up self-care looks like, how it works, and share practical strategies for incorporating it into your life. What is a Bottom-Up Approach? Bottom-up approaches focus on how sensory, emotional, and bodily experiences affect mental health. The goal is to address dysregulation in the nervous system before trying to tackle thoughts or behaviours. This approach aligns with the understanding that the body stores stress, trauma, and emotional experiences , and it needs to be engaged to promote healing. The nervous system operates in two main modes : Sympathetic activation : Fight-or-flight (activated during stress or danger). Parasympathetic activation : Rest-and-digest (calm and relaxed state). When anxiety or depression takes hold, the nervous system can get stuck in survival mode, either in hyperarousal (anxiety) or hypoarousal (depression or emotional numbness). Bottom-up self-care helps shift the nervous system toward balance by focusing on the body first, before the mind . Why Bottom-Up Self-Care Works Cognitive strategies like positive thinking or planning self-care rely on mental energy. But during high stress or emotional overwhelm, this energy may not be available. For example: When anxiety hijacks the nervous system, thinking clearly becomes difficult. Depression often brings a sense of numbness or fatigue, making it hard to initiate activities. Bottom-up self-care rebuilds regulation from the inside out by focusing on bodily sensations, movement, and sensory experiences. These strategies tap into the vagus nerve, a key player in the parasympathetic system, to promote calm and emotional stability. Bottom-Up Self-Care Strategies Here are several bottom-up self-care practices that can help restore emotional balance by regulating your nervous system. 1. Breath work Breathing is one of the quickest ways to engage the parasympathetic system. Intentional breath work can reduce anxiety and bring you back to a state of calm. Box breathing : Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 4, and hold for 4. Repeat several times. Extended exhale : Inhale for 4 seconds, and exhale slowly for 6–8 seconds to signal safety to the nervous system. When anxious, your breath tends to become shallow. Practicing deeper, controlled breathing grounds the body, offering stability to your emotions. 2. Movement and Embodiment Practices Moving your body helps release stored stress and allows you to reconnect with the present moment. Walking : Rhythmic movement such as walking calms the nervous system. A walk in nature adds the soothing element of sensory input (like fresh air and sounds of birds). Yoga or stretching : Gentle yoga practices increase vagal tone and reduce physical tension. Even 5–10 minutes of stretching can foster a sense of calm. Shaking or dancing : Tremoring or dancing can release energy trapped in the body, which may accumulate due to unexpressed stress or emotions. 3. Cold Water Therapy Cold exposure activates the parasympathetic nervous system and can quickly shift your state when you feel stuck. Splash cold water on your face or immerse your hands in ice water for 30 seconds. Cold showers : A 30-second cold rinse can jolt the nervous system out of a stress state, grounding you in the present. This practice taps into the vagus nerve and helps with emotional regulation, offering relief from anxiety or low mood. 4. Tactile and Sensory Self-Care When emotions feel overwhelming, grounding yourself through sensory input can bring relief. Weighted blankets : The deep pressure mimics a hug and can reduce anxiety by triggering a relaxation response. Holding objects : Keep a smooth stone, stress ball, or soft object nearby to engage your tactile sense when you feel emotionally overwhelmed. Aromatherapy : Scents like lavender, chamomile, or cedarwood can activate the parasympathetic system, promoting relaxation. These practices offer a direct line to calm by engaging your senses, without needing to process emotions cognitively. 5. Self-Soothing Touch Touch sends powerful signals of safety to the brain. Self-soothing techniques work by mimicking the calming effect of being comforted by another person. Hand on chest : Placing your hand on your chest and gently applying pressure can create a sense of safety. Hugging yourself : Wrapping your arms around yourself offers comfort, especially during moments of loneliness or distress. 6. Grounding Exercises Grounding reconnects you to the present moment through sensory experiences. 5-4-3-2-1 technique : Identify five things you see, four you touch, three you hear, two you smell, and one you taste. Barefoot grounding : Walking barefoot on grass, sand, or soil can reduce stress by reconnecting you to natural sensory inputs. These techniques help pull your attention away from anxious thoughts and back into the present. Building a Bottom-Up Self-Care Routine Incorporating bottom-up self-care requires consistency and patience , especially if your nervous system has been stuck in survival mode. Here are a few tips for building a sustainable routine: Start small : Begin with one or two practices that feel manageable, such as deep breathing or cold water therapy. Tune in : Pay attention to how your body feels before and after each practice. Notice any subtle shifts. Create rituals : Embed these practices into your daily routine, like stretching when you wake up or grounding yourself with a weighted blanket before bed. Practice without judgment : Some days, self-care might feel easy, and on others, it might feel impossible. That’s okay. Bottom-up care is about meeting yourself where you are, without forcing change. Bottom-up self-care offers a powerful way to promote emotional well-being, especially when thinking your way out of distress isn't possible. By focusing on the body's signals and nervous system regulation , these practices create a foundation of safety and calm. When the body feels safe, the mind follows, making space for thought-based strategies like reflection, problem-solving, and mindfulness. Remember, self-care isn’t one-size-fits-all . What matters most is experimenting with different practices and discovering what works for you. Whether it’s a short walk, a cold splash of water, or a hand on your chest, these small moments of care add up, bringing you closer to a sense of peace and balance. What’s one bottom-up self-care practice you can try today? Start small and notice how it feels, you deserve that moment of care.