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May is a heavy month for me. It’s been one year since I lost my dog, Grover: my soul dog, my best friend, my quiet, steady companion. Even now, saying that out loud doesn’t feel real. Some days, it feels like he was just here. Other days, it feels like he’s been gone forever. That’s the thing about grief. It bends time, plays tricks on your memory, and shows up when you least expect it. I’m a therapist. I spend much of my time holding space for grief, sitting with clients as they navigate loss, uncertainty, and the quiet ache that follows. But today, I’m not writing as a therapist. I’m writing as a person who has loved and lost, hard. I still miss the sound of his paws padding behind me. His raspy voice would always let me know when it was time for breakfast, dinner, or treats. He never let me forget when it was time for a walk. Even if I was in the middle of a session, he made his presence known. Everything in my life had a place for him. I used to sleep half-hanging off the edge of my king-sized bed so he could sprawl comfortably. His seat in the car was always ready. He had weekly hangouts with his little buddies, a non-negotiable part of the calendar. He was my constant. My co-pilot. The center of my routine. Grover wasn’t “just a dog.” He was with me through it all: the heartaches, the joys, the seasons of growth, and the ones that felt impossible to get through. He was my grounding presence in the chaos, the one who sat beside me in the quiet moments, the one who always seemed to know when I needed him near. He never spoke a word, but he offered the most honest companionship I’ve ever known. His love was unconditional, and so was mine. That kind of understanding, quiet, steady, and wordless, is rare. And it’s something I will always hold sacred. That’s the complexity of pet grief. It’s the loss of a companion, a part of your everyday. It’s missing someone you never had a conversation with, yet who somehow knew you better than most. It’s the ache of empty routines and the absence felt in all the small, ordinary spaces they used to fill. Grieving a pet is its own kind of grief. It’s deep and real, but often silent and unacknowledged. But if you’ve ever loved a pet the way I loved Grover, you understand it’s never “just” anything. It’s woven into your life. It’s the daily rituals, the quiet comfort, the way their presence makes the world feel more manageable and less alone. And grief itself is not tidy. It doesn’t follow rules or move in neat, predictable stages. It doesn’t politely excuse itself after a few months. It lingers. It shifts. Some days it softens. Other days, it cuts unexpectedly. It’s disorienting, lonely, and deeply, achingly human. A year later, the grief has softened, but it hasn’t gone. It lives beside me now, the way Grover once did. It doesn’t interrupt my days the way it used to, but it still finds me, especially in the quiet moments. And with that ache, there’s also something else: gratitude. A deep, full-body kind of appreciation for the bond we shared. A connection so rich that its absence will forever leave an imprint. I’m writing this not just for me, but for you, if you’ve lost someone. A pet, a person, a part of yourself. Loss is loss. And grief can feel unbearably lonely, especially when the world moves on and yours has stopped. So here’s a space for the ache. For the love. For the messiness. For the gratitude. Because what lives alongside my grief is the honour of having loved someone so completely. If you’re in it, missing someone who mattered more than words can hold, I see you. I miss Grover every single day. And I am endlessly grateful I got to love him the way I did. This is grief. And this is love.
With the snow melting and the days getting longer ( yay! ), many of us feel a natural urge to clean up our homes; sweeping out dust, decluttering closets, and welcoming in fresh air. Spring cleaning is a ritual of renewal, a way of creating space and bringing in light. But have you ever thought about doing the same for your mind? As April is Stress Awareness Month, it’s a perfect opportunity to check in with yourself—not just physically, but mentally and emotionally. While we often focus on the things we can see and tidy up around the house, the mental and emotional clutter we carry can be just as heavy, if not more so. What is Mental Clutter, Really? Mental clu tter is all the “stuff” in our minds that distracts us, drains us, or leaves us feeling stuck. It’s the internal noise of unfinished to-do lists, looping worries, self-criticism, unprocessed emotions, or even the pressure to keep it all together. Some signs of mental clutter might include: Feeling overwhelmed or scattered Difficulty focusing or making decisions Overthinking conversations or past mistakes Constant mental to-do lists A sense of emotional fatigue—even when you’ve had “down time” If any of this feels familiar, you’re not alone. We all accumulate mental clutter from time to time, especially during stressful periods or when life feels busy and nonstop. The Connection Between Mental Clutter and Stress When our minds are full of disorganized thoughts, worries, and unresolved emotions, it keeps our nervous system in a state of high alert. You may not feel “panicked” per se, but your body might be operating as if there’s a low-level emergency all the time—what we sometimes call chronic stress. And the thing about chronic stress is that it’s sneaky. It builds gradually, often without us realizing how much we’re carrying. Over time, it can show up as sleep issues, irritability, burnout, brain fog, or even physical symptoms like headaches or muscle tension. By bringing awareness to our stress and taking steps to reduce our mental clutter, we give ourselves space to breathe, focus, and feel more grounded. 5 Ways to Spring Clean Your Mind Just like physical clutter, mental clutter doesn’t go away on its own. The good news? You don’t have to overhaul your entire life to make a meaningful shift. Here are five approachable ways to clear some space in your mind this spring: Name What’s Taking Up Mental Space Start with some honest reflection. What’s been on your mind lately? What’s bothering you beneath the surface? This might be anything from work deadlines to emotional pain you haven’t had time to process. Try writing it all down without editing or judging. Sometimes simply naming what’s there helps you feel more in control. Try a Daily “Brain Dump” At the end of the day, give yourself 5–10 minutes to unload whatever’s lingering in your mind—things you need to remember, thoughts you’re ruminating on, or feelings you haven’t addressed. Writing this down helps your brain feel like it can pause, knowing nothing important is being forgotten. It’s a small practice with a big calming effect. Cut Down on Mental “Noise” In today’s world, we’re constantly consuming information—news, emails, social media, podcasts. It adds up quickly. Try setting gentle limits on screen time or giving yourself “quiet hours” where you step away from digital inputs. Even small shifts, like muting notifications or taking a social media break, can reduce background stress. Challenge the Inner Critic Mental clutter isn’t just about tasks and worries—it can also include the unkind voice in your head. Notice when you’re being self-critical or catastrophizing (e.g., “I always mess this up,” “What if everything goes wrong?”). When you catch these thoughts, try gently questioning them. Ask: Is this true? Is this helpful? What would I say to a friend in this situation? Make Room for Stillness It doesn’t have to be a long meditation or fancy mindfulness practice. It could be as simple as pausing for a deep breath, sitting outside for a few minutes, or sipping your coffee without scrolling. These micro-moments of stillness help reset your nervous system and allow your mind to catch its breath. When You Need More Than a Reset If you’ve been feeling mentally cluttered for a while and can’t seem to find relief, it might be time to talk to someone. Therapy offers a space to sort through what’s been building up, explore the deeper sources of stress, and develop strategies that support your mental well-being in a sustainable way. Think of therapy like mental spring cleaning with guidance—it’s not about being perfect or “fixing” everything. It’s about giving yourself the time and space to clear out what’s not serving you and make room for clarity, connection, and calm. Feeling Ready to Clear Some Space? If this post resonated with you, let's talk. Therapy can be a valuable space to slow down, sort through what’s on your mind, and find practical ways to manage stress with more ease. If you’re feeling mentally cluttered or simply ready for a fresh start, I invite you to reach out. Schedule a free consultation to explore whether therapy might be a good fit for you!
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